Temple of Heaven.
Each morning retirees meet to do their morning exercises such as waltzing and playing “Jianzi.” It’s like the American game hacky sack, but instead of bean bags, they use weighted feather shuttlecocks.
We got to try our hand at Tai Chi! Of course, we didn’t have swords to use, so Rodney used his pen. His reasoning was—“the pen is mightier than the sword”!!
Another morning exercise was basically human ring toss! The rings seem to be made of felt-like material.
This little piece of our morning, on the other hand, WAS a highlight! In this section of the park, among the mass of retirees was this cute little man!! He walked up to our group, reached into his bag, and pulled out his treasured photo album. It seemed some pictures were maybe of his personal family, but his most treasured seemed to be those of Chairman Mao and HIS family!! Through his conversation with Sunny, we learned that as a member of the Chinese Army, he was stationed in North Korea for five years during the Korean War!!
Now, about that mass of retirees…. With China’s population being about 1.5 billion people, retirement is mandatory and comes a bit earlier than in the states. With the exception of lawyers and doctors, women retire at 55 and men at 60 making about 200 million senior citizens right now!! So, those still very healthy, active adults have to do something to remain healthy and active…. Like go exercise and hang out with their friends at the park every morning! This particular group was doing a little extra---- they were playing matchmaker--- for their grown, unwed children!! Those grown children are working so hard and all the time, they don’t have time to get out and meet a potential spouse, so the parents go to an area like this with their child’s bio in hand and find a good match for them!! A big selling point is if the child owns their own home (apartment). They are expected to pay half their salary on a house payment!! And if they’re only renting?? Forget it--- NOT considered successful!! (In some areas, a 1,000 square foot, 2 bedroom apartment would sell for about $1 million US dollars!!!)
Even though they
say it is arranged marriages, it’s not mandatory in all cases. Some parents are
willing to allow the children to meet and go out, but if the children say it’s
just not going to work, they “shake hands and walk away.” Although, I bet it’s
more of a bow than a handshake
But, if on the other hand, the match works and the couple
get married and have their one “allowed by law” child, the grandparents become
the care providers while the parents are at work. Who knows, maybe they’ll have
enough money to pay for it and their child will
make it to the top of the 30,000 name waiting list for private Pre-K. If
not, they’ll babysit until the child is old enough to begin their compulsory 1st
through 9th grade education career.
An interesting tidbit about the birth of those
grandbabies--- China has the highest C-section rate! They plan the delivery for
a special day, or to start school at 6 instead of 7 which would them make the
child finish compulsory school and ready for work a year earlier!
Rodney took this picture in a men’s toilet above the urinal....
And, yes, I bet it does help keep it cleaner!!